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4/10/2005 4:05:00 PM
Will you be able to trust this person completely? Or will doubts continue to linger?
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4/10/2005 4:10:00 PM
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4/10/2005 4:14:00 PM
Touch the devil and you cant let go................
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4/10/2005 4:17:00 PM
trust is a one chance thing. it doesn't matter if you spend the next 20 years rebuidling someone's trust, the first time you stay out later without calling, their mind will race right back to that initial moment of broken trust. save yourself the head- and heartache.
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Oldschool CVer (14699posts)
4/10/2005 5:07:00 PM
I disagree, I cheated on my ex, and I definatley learnt my lesson, he dumped my sorry ass. I would never ever cheat on the person I am seeing now, he is too special to me.
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4/10/2005 5:11:00 PM
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4/10/2005 5:17:00 PM
^ so you may think
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4/10/2005 5:22:00 PM
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4/10/2005 5:27:00 PM
well how do you know for sure that he hasn't done it again? can you be 100% certain? Maybe hes just gotten better at keeping it from you.
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4/10/2005 5:28:00 PM
^ good point, i guess once the trust is broken its tough to mend things...
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4/10/2005 5:31:00 PM
i just meant if one has cheated in the past and u meet someone new and develop a relationship, if they mean a lot to you, you wont wanna make the mistakes that you had done in the past
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4/10/2005 5:34:00 PM
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4/10/2005 5:38:00 PM
Lia-exactly, people grow up, things change , diff stages in their lives, but its not only the guys, girls cheat too
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4/10/2005 5:45:00 PM
I would never give someone a second chance....I'd be so disgusted by it
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4/10/2005 5:47:00 PM
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4/10/2005 5:50:00 PM
Jewce, let's pretend that you are not in a relationship right now and you meet this awesome girl. You find out, however, that she's been known to cheat on her relationships before. Would you pursue knowing her better, or would you end it before it even started because you know she hasn't been loyal to her ex bf?
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4/10/2005 5:53:00 PM
once a cheater always a cheater? i think i would agree for the most part, ppl try to change but they always have lapses.
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4/10/2005 6:18:00 PM
totally agree once you've done it, it wont be that big of a step, wont be as hard as the first time... dont kow if that makes sense.
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4/10/2005 6:23:00 PM
once a person cheats the temptation is always there, cause they cant settle for what they have.
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4/10/2005 6:23:00 PM
I'd end it
Not the type of person I wanna get to know
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4/10/2005 7:32:00 PM
^ But would you consider STARTING a relationship with someone who has cheated (on someone else) in the past?
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