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	Rope_Burn Member (296posts) 5/30/2005 12:24:00 AM To be honest I think many of these guys are attracted to girls that don't have as much going on upstairs as they do, in order to make themselves feel more intelligent. Exhibit A: Nick Lachey is a moron, and so is Jessica. However, Nick comes across as clever as a rocket scientist compared to his wife, therefore making him feel better about himself..... It seems to work....some people would go as far as calling Nick smart when really it is all an illusion!
	MR_IMPERFECTION Member (201posts) 5/30/2005 1:39:00 AM hey entice...never lowering your standards!! it's very hard to find a person of full package... smart and hot (good looking) people usually have one or the other.... rarely do u find people like me... no package at all... lam pretty dumb and ugly... No hot chicks will go out with me... only chicks only wear glasses might date me b/c she feels sorry for me lol
	meziii Promoter (1623posts) 5/30/2005 1:53:00 AM i wear glasses!!! is that why you tried sweet talking me ?? oooooooooooooooooooo boof head
	MR_IMPERFECTION Member (201posts) 5/30/2005 1:56:00 AM hey mezii l never sweet talk to u... lam a very friendly and socailable guy... love to talk to both male and female... u are the person thinks lam cute???
	Miz_N Member (576posts) 5/30/2005 2:16:00 AM superdu u make me laugh lolll
	MR_IMPERFECTION Member (201posts) 5/30/2005 2:46:00 AM hey miz..lol this is not for chatting...
	Carlyyy Member (1993posts) 5/30/2005 4:58:00 AM I could not agree more... i once went for nothing but the best (meaning the hottest guy in my eyes) & although they had the bonus points rite there.. ive learnt over the past month or so, that upholding your dignity, self pride & worth, is more important, than falling for or getting involved with someone, purely based on their image.. I would much rather be with someone, who cared about me for me & the genuine qualities they saw in me, rather than someone who pretends to & plays endless head games for some ****ed up ulterior motive..! Hey i may not be the most glamouress thing put on this earth, but without being modest i will say that at least i have a good head on my shoulders & have respect where its concerned. So g'luck to those guys who fall helplessly over those flimsy little tarts with no brains.. cos reality is, in the long run they will look back & realise they chose the wrong type of girl..Perhaps stopping to think well 10, 20, 30 years down the track from now.. she will probably be a sight for sore eyes anyway.. lol.. & yes girls, this would also apply to those of u, who downgrade yourselves for someone with a much lower worth.. So my advice, think outside the square u live in & not for the moment! lol Inner beauty keeps getting more & more valuable these days...
	DonCiccio Member (10987posts) 5/30/2005 9:28:00 AM ^^ lol, use the space and enter bar luv!! Ursh, great thread. I've been guilty of this, unfortunately you only ever see that after all the bulls.hit and fights. Good looks can blind even the most hard arse male, it happened to me, and prior to her I'd never have allowed alot of previous girlfriends to get away with what she did. You live and you learn. The funny thing is, the looks keep you there hoping the little good qualities that people never see about your partner will eventually shine through. They hardly ever do. But I believe everyone who goes through s.hit in their relationships, finally end up happy and finding someone who truly adores them and treats them with the utmost respect. This is what I believe, its what I deserve. For all the crap times in the past 18 months, i'm happy to say that I have found someone pretty special, so it was worth the pain in my opinion. Don xo
	consumer Member (2640posts) 5/30/2005 1:32:00 PM entice i am amazed by your lack of ignorance. i am often amazed by how many women just think of life as whatever happens through their eyes. a lack of respect and understanding is so common. lowering expectations is tantamount to being more desperate. i'd rather stay single than to be with a woman with the personality and brains of a wall.
	yeeeaaahhh Member (3325posts) 5/30/2005 2:28:00 PM completly agree... someone can be absolutly stuning and there personality can make them disgustingly horrible to look at .....
	Outsider_ Moderator (10924posts) 5/30/2005 3:05:00 PM im just looking for my princess........ that is all i know!!
	Prometheus69 Member (6894posts) 5/30/2005 3:38:00 PM Ohhhh Phleeeeze ladies. Guys will go out with the most attractive woman they can, whether she has three functioning brain cells or not is beside the point. Evolution has conditioned us to seek the most physically attractive partner possible; its the same reason that women go for rich males in positions of power even though these guys tend be be complete asshole bastards. Another thing to consider is that us guys need to go out with attractive women with all the faults that they may have in order to work out what is actually important to us in our partner. Even the hottest "babe" becomes painfull to be with when you realise she is dumber than Forest Gump or has personality defects that could keep a team of psychiatrists in work for the next decade. Both women and men have major double standards. At the end of the day each person owes it to themselves to maintain their self respect and dignity. When you sell yourself out , its akin to selling your soul. There is no such thing as a "perfect person" , we all have our faults ...although some have more faults than others. Ideally as individuals we can admit our faults to ourselves and make an effort to improve. As the Ancient Greeks said .... Know Thyself.
	pana Moderator (2885posts) 5/30/2005 3:39:00 PM Stunning people are just like window dressings....they look good from behind the screen but have a convo and they cannot string a sentence together (speaking about the minority of dimwits out there) having a stunning partner is great if your there to show em off but if u cannot have a decent convo then whats the point looks are superficial while a mature,witty and sensual mind is priceless study the female mind and u will slowly oh very slowly start to understand a woman................i think
	Prometheus69 Member (6894posts) 5/30/2005 3:50:00 PM quote: study the female mind and u will slowly oh very slowly start to understand a woman................i think Yes Pana , the only problem is that so much of it is written in indeciphereable code. Let me give you an example ...... A man walking along the beach stumbles across a bottle that he opens and out popps a powerfull Genie that promises him one wish. So the man wishes for a bridge that will go from Australia all the way to Hawaii so that he can drive to Hawaii for holidays instead of having to catch the plane. The Genie thinks about this and relpies .... " That is too massive an undertaking , such a bridge would require too many materials, too many hours of work and think of the Health and Safety issues !" ... "Please choose another wish! " So the man replies to the Genie .... "I want to be able to understand women , how they think , what they feel , their different moods , their minds , their dreams" To which the Genie replied .... " With that bridge of yours ... do you want two lanes or four ?"
	pana Moderator (2885posts) 5/30/2005 4:08:00 PM LOLOL..........Prom as ive always said....WOMEN R EVIL
	DeepahGroove DJ/Artist (1244posts) 6/1/2005 6:12:00 PM i just wanted to comment on the jessica simpon thing about her being dumb! i personally think she is smarter than nick. she just plays the bimbo. that nick aint too bright! lol anyway back to reality... i dont understand why some girls are with some guys and vice versa. perhaps they see something we don't. perhaps they are easily satisfied or affraid of putting themselves out there. dating can be hard. or perhaps they are shallow! who know really. all i know is that its really non of our business and the worst thing anyone can do is gossip! don't be bitter, be happy for ur friends. support their decision despite what u think! thats how it should be. enough winging and moaning about how wrong it is.... just dont do it yourself. make good decisions, stand by your beliefs and you will be happy!
	Outsider_ Moderator (10924posts) 6/1/2005 6:15:00 PM if any female on CV wants to lower her standard.... please PM me
	Fahrenheit Nightlife Industry (687posts) 6/1/2005 7:02:00 PM good is attracted to bad, and bad attracted to good..... easssssssssssszzzy
	_kez_ Nightlife Industry (6638posts) 6/1/2005 7:17:00 PM ^^^^^Sooooooooo true!!!!
	DeepahGroove DJ/Artist (1244posts) 6/1/2005 7:22:00 PM its so not!
	_kez_ Nightlife Industry (6638posts) 6/1/2005 7:49:00 PM ^^Hey you! lol.....It is so!!!