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6/19/2005 9:46:00 PM
My girlfriend who I love so so soooo much is going overseas for 6 months and weve only been together for 6 months....Its gonna be kinda hard and I dont know how to approach the subject of what were gonna do....weve decided we're gonna stay together but I dunno whether I want her holding herself back because of little old me in Aus......Going overseas is a life changing experience and I want her to have the greatest time ever!!!
How should I approach this subject without her bawling her eyes out, coz shes done it before!?!?!
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6/19/2005 9:47:00 PM
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6/19/2005 9:49:00 PM
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6/19/2005 9:49:00 PM
maybe a open relationship? then if either of u flys over to the other, close it again?
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6/19/2005 9:50:00 PM
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6/19/2005 9:52:00 PM
as lil el said
let her go.....
break up for your sake buddy.....if she sleeps with someone its better broken up than her cheating on u....and what do u know when she comes back if shes still that into u it would be so easy to continue again....
not only for her sake but your sake mostly...
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6/19/2005 9:54:00 PM
True...but I love her so much...I probably wouldnt even think about it while shes away....I just think Id go insane is all....
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6/19/2005 10:02:00 PM
Thats a tough one dude!
But look if you two love each other so much then you should really say.. you know what... its only 6 months we're talking about here and before you know it, it'll be over. sure enough the first bit will be hard but im telling you time will fly by!!
the first month or two will be the hardest part... you get through that time, you'll be fine!
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6/19/2005 10:15:00 PM
Thats right yeh...but it could turn into longer...I know ppl who have never come home from o/s...Im taking a very pessimistic view to this...this is the first girl Ive ever loved and she's leaving me for 6 months..she says Im the first guy shes ever loved too...I dunno....were only 21 you know
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6/19/2005 10:31:00 PM
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6/19/2005 10:32:00 PM
No angles, just sit down & talk about it. Either way it's touchy subject, get it over & done with.
Take into consideration what you would want if you were the one travelling for 6months?
I was in the same position not long ago. He's still overseas. It's a learning experience & all that jazz. So as a harsh reality, we've taken time apart b/c it's what suited us. Just have to see what will happen when he gets back... if it doesn't work out, then either of us are prepared for that.
time flies swainy... good luck
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6/19/2005 10:55:00 PM
thanks rocketta...
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6/19/2005 11:40:00 PM
As you know Aussies pull like hell overseas, your kidding yourself if you think that she will be faithfull.
If you love her/him you wont mind them sleeping with other people.
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6/20/2005 12:19:00 AM
Yeh dude she is going love the britsh boys, girls become so easy when they go overseas, i think it the heat.
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6/20/2005 12:29:00 AM
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6/20/2005 1:40:00 AM
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6/20/2005 2:19:00 AM
very true...and yes weve chatted....but its always just been...."Of course we'll stay together!" But we havent actually talked about the implications and how people change and all that jazz.....so yeh...its more complicated than just that....The bird analogy is very true and we talked about that too....
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6/20/2005 4:07:00 AM
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6/20/2005 4:00:00 PM
what did mr v do??? lol
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6/20/2005 4:10:00 PM
Seriously, i think the only thing to do is sit down and have some sushi and take some deep breaths the answer will come to you my friend.
On a quick side note: dont do anything stupid we like your posts around here, so stay away from such bowel irritants like chillis, mustard seeds and spring onions
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6/20/2005 4:15:00 PM
Duly noted my man.....thanks for the heads up...lol
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