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	rajplusplus Member (2736posts) 10/30/2005 9:24:00 PM i'm not adding anything to the conversation
	GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts) 10/30/2005 9:25:00 PM I guess having conversation here is pointless since nobody likes to go against opinions. You have a f'in brain, use it you stupid broad. giggles No you're not adding anything, which merely begs the question, why the hell are you here?
	Blow_Me_Hard Member (2623posts) 10/30/2005 9:25:00 PM DATING=PORKING. Done.
	Spiderwoman Member (54106posts) 10/30/2005 9:26:00 PM You women are defensive becuase you are more worried about being labeled a golddigger than actually being one oh brother maybe we're defensive cause we know you are wrong and are standing up for what is true as far as we are concerned You need to get the idea that women always say what they don't want or what isn't true out of your head. Sure there are people (men too) who do this but seriously... give people the benefit fo the doubt.
	GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts) 10/30/2005 9:30:00 PM I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to spot a gold digger. Accusing every women of being one is a bit ridiculous. ON a friday night all I need to do is stick my head out of my apartment and I can tell you which girls are in it for the money. Tighted busted wenches courting around older men,well tanned older men in italian suits. I don't think most women gold dig. I think most women do want financial security. And dating a really good looking and likeable bum is not appealing.
	Leykette Member (592posts) 10/30/2005 9:31:00 PM i already answered the question. use YOUR brain. read. i wont repeat my posts cuz ur stupid. bye.
	rajplusplus Member (2736posts) 10/30/2005 9:33:00 PM I guess having conversation here is pointless since nobody likes to go against opinions. You have a f'in brain, use it you stupid broad. giggles No you're not adding anything, which merely begs the question, why the hell are you here? you say that having a conversation here is pointless, you've said that probably 100 times before. so the real question is why are you here? either: a) you really don't want to have a conversation and just want satisfy a need to feel a smug but empty sense of superiority or b) you are a complete idiot.
	tammytoes Moderator (17194posts) 10/30/2005 9:36:00 PM I think that Greenteawater brings up some very good points. I also disagree with the statement that dating always only equals having sex. What about serious long-term relationships, where marriage is in the future? What about people who choose to wait until marriage prior to having sex, but date the love of their life for years? Call me niave, but I believe that romantic love still exists. I believe that a person can be attracted to another PERSON, and not just whats in their bank account. I am sure that many would disagree, but I can't imagine living, and REFUSE to live in a world where love is a fallacy.
	GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts) 10/30/2005 9:36:00 PM leykette, No you didn't answer my question, you simply told me that my comment was my comment and mine only. Gold star for you. Good work rajraj, you broke me down to the smallest measure. 1 big exaggeration and a failure to grasp the meaning behind statements and you did it! I've made a few points here. You told me to pull a stick out of my ass, two other people reminded me that my opinons are my opinions and here we are now.
	Blow_Me_Hard Member (2623posts) 10/30/2005 9:39:00 PM Greenwater, she said it here.... dating is not the same as forty yrs ago though. these days dating means u r screwin sum1. thats fine. but theres so many dif kinds of datin and its up to each couple on settin the rules. i dont believe theres any right or wrong definitions, its whatever works for you! And I agree completely. She has an open mind, but YOU think dating is something written in a book and there are strict rules etc. Ummm no. Maybe you, but not the rest of the planet. Gnite.
	Blow_Me_Hard Member (2623posts) 10/30/2005 9:41:00 PM Your opinions ARE your opinions. You've stated them. I for one disagree. Bye.
	GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts) 10/30/2005 9:41:00 PM That was history. I wanted her to to back that statement up. I wanted to know all the different types of dating and how they work. We never got that far. Once opinions are stated, debate and discussion can sometimes follow. I'm sorry nobody has taught that basic concept to you. You can plead ignorance and I'll understand.
	tammytoes Moderator (17194posts) 10/30/2005 9:42:00 PM Okay. We have established that everyone's opinions are simply their own opinions, and hold no absolute truth. That goes for Greentea, myself, you, Tom Leykis and even the Pope. Let's move on.
	Illustrix Member (2990posts) 10/30/2005 9:42:00 PM This thread reminds me of the losers that hit on me last night after the club with their lame pick up lines. "Hey sweetheart what's your name, do you live around here, I love your 'costume', wait don't walk away, talk to me!" as I'm walking down the street making it known to them that I'm talking to my boyfriend on the phone. I hate persistant obnoxious guys like that. The most genuine approach I've ever had from a stranger was this guy that said "look, I noticed you right away and for the past 5 minutes I've been trying to think of a stupid excuse to talk to you" ...even though that could've been a line he often used himself, at least it was sincere sounding and not creepy.
	tammytoes Moderator (17194posts) 10/30/2005 9:44:00 PM ^ it's so true! Too many guys think that heckling someone is a good way to get them into bed
	GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts) 10/30/2005 9:51:00 PM It's only creepy if you don't like them do begin with. What if Brad Pitt said "nice costume". I'm sure it would come off as the pick up line of the year. But I understand what your saying. Finding women in the city has always been an embarising affair for me. Especially at night clubs. I don't even like using lines like "hey,what's your name". It's so expected and played out. I need a new venue with a new pick up line. Country side maybe, "wanna go horse back riding". I Think that would be ok.
	tammytoes Moderator (17194posts) 10/30/2005 10:08:00 PM ^ a good point. Brad Pitt could pretty much throw ROCKS at me, and that would be a good enough pick up line I think too that women seem to be way more guarded in big cities.. or maybe it's just this day in age.. Whatever. There really isn't much a guy can say to a woman that will really knock her off her socks. If they use normal lines they are being too bland and predictable. If they come up with something uber creative and off the wall then they are weird and creepy. I can understand why a lot of guys don't even bother any more. But i still maintain that dropping your yearly salary within 3 minutes of meeting a person is rather pathetic.
	Nac Member (19497posts) 10/30/2005 10:22:00 PM ^^ So true about the brad pitt thing I like creative lines so long as I don't find th rest of him creepy, such as his age or attire. Charm always makes a non-creepy man more attractive.
	LadyoftheHouse Member (387posts) 10/30/2005 10:27:00 PM ^ i agree! i have a loser list. usually it is based on how the person approaches me first. if a guy appraoches me in anyway poor...straight to the loser list...unless proven otherwise if a guy approaches me in a non loser way, then koodos to them! girls need to keep good people around and weed the bad ones out...
	tammytoes Moderator (17194posts) 10/30/2005 10:31:00 PM When my BF first approached me I totally blew him off. I was out with my girlfriends trying to have a good time, and here comes this guy trying to start up a conversation. I was just NOT into it! However, he charmed his way in... and well, it's been a year now, and I love him more than I ever thought I could love another human being. So, I guess the moral of the story is that the guy you are rolling your eyes at just might be the love of your life!
	LadyoftheHouse Member (387posts) 10/30/2005 10:44:00 PM very very true... as long as the know how to get themself off the loser list then its all up hill from there. just that they may have to work a little harder.