Please stop being a Loser
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MemberPlease stop being a Loser
star_69
star_69 Member (20136posts)
10/31/2005 1:11:00 AM
i have a loser list.
usually it is based on how the person approaches me first.
if a guy appraoches me in anyway poor...straight to the loser list...unless proven otherwise


Thats a s-hitty attitude if ever i heard one.

patty_mcgaff
patty_mcgaff Member (3934posts)
10/31/2005 7:09:00 AM
quote:
"Hey sweetheart what's your name, do you live around here, I love your 'costume', wait don't walk away, talk to me!"


Everyone has their own style. Personally, I prefer to show my interest by giving creepy looks and subtle humping gestures.

tammytoes
tammytoes Moderator (17194posts)
10/31/2005 8:54:00 AM
^ HAHAHAHA

that would win me over! in love

LadyoftheHouse
LadyoftheHouse Member (387posts)
10/31/2005 9:06:00 AM
^^^i do agree

it is not the best of all best
but being a girl and with so many psychos out there
and the male mentality
i just need to keep it safe

i'm sure you know what i'm talking about

in a way its just the survival of the fittest


Temptasia
Temptasia Oldschool CVer (10460posts)
10/31/2005 9:28:00 AM
This isn't related to some guy showing off his money but I find guys who also say:

"I only date asian girls"
"I've never had an asian and want to try"
"I've got an asian fever...blah blah"

totally ooze the creep vibe and makes me want to vomit.

sunday
sunday Member (6080posts)
10/31/2005 9:36:00 AM
I will give it my best.

star_69
star_69 Member (20136posts)
10/31/2005 9:51:00 AM
"I only date asian girls"
"I've never had an asian and want to try"
"I've got an asian fever...blah blah"

totally ooze the creep vibe and makes me want to vomit.


LOL..funny. Chicks say similar things to me about black guys.

I'm like..ugh go away.

grant
grant Music Lover (1339posts)
10/31/2005 11:33:00 AM
there's alot of hyprocrisy and contridictions to wade through when socailizing in vancouver.

i'm not young anymore, i don't have time to waste.

so if i'm asked what i do, or how old i am, or what kind of car i drive, she's not that into me anyways. i turn around and introduce myself to someone else.

any woman can make any dude 'COOL' and 'FUNNY' if she just let herself.

i'm on the skytrain a couple of weeks ago, smiling and flirting with a young girl, a dude gets on, sits down and announces out loud (to no one in particular):
" YA, I'M WORKING ON FIVE OR SIX SONGS RIGHT NOW. I WRITE SONGS" blank stare

and that young girl i was flirting with stared staring at this 'songwriter'

i'm just gonna run my errands around town with a guitar strapped to my back. that way i don't have to make excuses for my clothes, income, where i live, or my age. wink

Cacophonic
Cacophonic Member (78posts)
10/31/2005 5:42:00 PM
"it is not the best of all best
but being a girl and with so many psychos out there
and the male mentality
i just need to keep it safe"

SOmeone sounds jaded.
THe only reason why there is so many psychos out there is becuase you think there is. Look up Self fulfilling prophecy.

GreenTreeWater
GreenTreeWater Member (1032posts)
10/31/2005 9:55:00 PM
So I guess it's final. If you are not attracted to the person who is currently hitting on you, regardless of what lines this person uses, they stand no chance. In fact, if they try harder, it will only make the situation worse.

Of course one person here mention that the current love of her life annoyed her at first. That alone is enough to void my above comment, however, I'd be willing to wager that this girl was simply not in the mood to talk and did not find the guy creepy. So there may have been attraction, just bad timing.

Nac
Nac Member (19497posts)
10/31/2005 9:59:00 PM
If I am not attracted to them at all, no, they stand no chance. There needs to be some spark. However, if there is a bit of attraction and the guy turns out the be really charming that bit will turn into a lot.

Jonsonnn
Jonsonnn Member (11posts)
10/31/2005 10:07:00 PM
Tammytoes is a hottie. I would like to lick her bum all night long. Forget your boytoy you haven't met me. in love

__________preen
__________preen Nightlife Industry (26423posts)
11/1/2005 12:57:00 AM
I don't go in for lines.

I'll talk to someone if they are just being natural with me, but if they have to come up with something I usually find it an intrusion.

I go out to goof off with my friends and I'm only intersted in someone joining our group if they are going to be playful and fun with us rather than push an agenda for dating one of us.

lardass13
lardass13 Member (6942posts)
11/1/2005 1:10:00 AM
I never talk about what kind of work I do. Even if I was the CEO of some company I still wouldn't talk about it. I'm more interested in her not me. If she asks I might just quickly say what I do and move on. No need to spend time dwelling on what I do. Its work and its boring that is all she needs to know smile


LadyoftheHouse
LadyoftheHouse Member (387posts)
11/1/2005 1:45:00 AM
jaded maybe the correct word

so does one self come unjaded?

patty_mcgaff
patty_mcgaff Member (3934posts)
11/1/2005 7:04:00 AM
What I liked most about the conversation tammytoes originally posted was how the guy asked a simple question, but after she answered, he proceeded to talk about himself like she asked him about his career.

If you don't actually care about what the answer is, don't bother asking...

star_69
star_69 Member (20136posts)
11/1/2005 7:15:00 AM
Because what he was doing was learned.

Its obviously something that has worked, and probably works often

Women are more materialistic than men.

Men are materialistic to get more pussa.

Its a cycle that women try to deny because it makes them look shallow.

So who's fault is this really? The guys fault or The chicks that his line has worked on & vast majority of chicks that ask guys "what do you do?" within minutes of meeting them?

Metallichick
Metallichick Member (12447posts)
11/1/2005 12:08:00 PM
First thing chicks ask: "So...whaddya do?"

I only EVER ask that in response. If someone asks me what I do (and I feel like answering) I will ask them the same question. If they don't ask or discuss it, I won't either.

Too many guys think that heckling someone is a good way to get them into bed
Especially French ones. blank stare

Brad Pitt could pretty much throw ROCKS at me, and that would be a good enough pick up line

HAHAH I LOVE YOU TAMBO COLE-DAVIS

and subtle humping gestures.

Um, HI! in love

Chaos
Chaos Member (8950posts)
11/1/2005 12:53:00 PM
^^ ah ha ha ha ha ha...

Star your ****in mint...

So damn true...

lol...

TICK4K
TICK4K Member (4986posts)
11/1/2005 1:00:00 PM


<-----Old bald try hard loser...

TICK4K
TICK4K Member (4986posts)
11/1/2005 1:04:00 PM
The bottom line is, is that anything can be said, in the right way and in the right context....

Not so much about the words as it is perceived/projected intentions...

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