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SexyChilena
SexyChilena Member (1773posts)
4/1/2007 8:23:00 PM
Im wanting a destination wedding in Cabo San Lucas....

I know all the legal mumbo jumbo and so on... but what I was wondering about was...??? a wedding planner here that can assist???

Im looking for a reasonably priced wedding planner than can help put it all together here and then for the hotel to take over there....

any help would be great smile thankyou

SexyChilena
SexyChilena Member (1773posts)
4/1/2007 8:41:00 PM
also... I found a site that connects you with some one who will help you plan the destination wedding... but... I dont know if i trust something like that to plan my wedding...

whats better? person to person wedding planning or goin through on online planner?

even though the choice seems a lil obvious...lol! input would be great smile thanks again

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/1/2007 10:59:00 PM
I would strongly suggest getting married legally in Canada first, then having a symbolic ceremony in Mexico.
2 reasons: their stupid rules, and it's cheaper!

For most places you have to be there 3-4 days before your wedding day...
some others:
"Blood tests: These must be done locally in Mexico"
4 witnesses
"get your certificate 'legalized' in Mexico to ensure it is legally accepted when you get back home"

Some resorts will give you a wedding for "free" if you book at least 5 rooms at a certain rate/level, etc. Lots of fine print. Most resorts will charge anywhere from $1,000 to $2,500 US for the wedding there. Renewal of Vow ceremonies run a lot cheaper (under $1,000)

I'd get yourself an amazing travel agent who is very experienced in group travel/weddings, and a resort wedding planner who actually knows what they're doing!!!!

A really good source is the WeddingBells website, they have their own Destination Weddings forum (and it's all canadian!)
www.weddingbells.ca (I think there's a contest still going on for a $40,000 dream destination wedding too wink )



On a side note, I got my dresses now! big grin
I got the first one, and it didn't fit sad I worked really hard, lost 5 lbs last week, and it fits big grin Good thing I have over a year to go before I wear it!!!

I'll post pics, but I'll have to delete them before Tuesday wink
Dress # 1 for Richmond wedding Next May
(all the usual disclaimers apply: trying on my dresses was the LAST thing i wanted to do at midnight last night - but my mom wanted to play!!!!)
*pics removed*


Dress # 2 for Destination Wedding
*pics removed*




wolfchick
wolfchick Moderator (45824posts)
4/2/2007 5:17:00 AM
^Gorgeous!!! in love

danidabi
danidabi Member (2618posts)
4/2/2007 6:56:00 AM
stunning,your beautiful

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/2/2007 7:51:00 AM
thanks guys blush


I've totally lucked out with both those dresses....
They don't need much for alterations: a bustle!

Although I'm thinking about putting a corset back in the formal one, and taking the destination one in an inch or two on the sides, so the corset is more defined in the back.
But that's just me being picky!

banana

Total cost of 2 dresses: under $900!!!!!
(both retail for $1,000 a piece!)

pwincess
pwincess Member (2005posts)
4/2/2007 8:07:00 AM
Gorgeous!!!
The scond one looks so awesome on you. As does the first!
You got the second dress pretty quickly then eh!?

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/2/2007 8:13:00 AM
Yeah, I bought it online.
Brand new, never been worn ** only tried on.
A Maggie Sottero for $350 smile
I was amazed, it's hemmed PERFECTLY for me!!!!!!
I've really lucked out!!!!!!!!

It's not done up properly in the pic, so it's a little loose, and big looking!!
My mom couldn't figure out how to tie up the corset bang head
I don't know how I"m going to do that in Mexico, call house keeping?

Now my mom's joking around, "Why don't you buy a dress for the plane?!"
** Don't Tempt Me!!! hahaha

A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL
A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL Member (4494posts)
4/2/2007 10:49:00 AM
You look awesome! The second one is the style I want for my wedding a bit tighter fitted. Did you get the second one from Andrea?

Bambolina
Bambolina Member (4419posts)
4/2/2007 10:52:00 AM
OMG lol i dont even know ya and im gonna tear up! hahahhahahhah you look GORGEOUS!! I really love the second dress too!!

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/2/2007 11:15:00 AM
A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL , I got the 2nd one online... from http://www.preownedweddingdresses.com/

The girl was asking $500 US
I talked her down to $300 US smile
Andrea's price was $650 Canadian, which is still an AWESOME deal!

It's supposed to be a bit tighter fitting but my mom was having issues not being able to do up the corset sad


A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL
A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL Member (4494posts)
4/2/2007 11:16:00 AM
My friend is having such a great time working with Andrea. I'm definatley going to her when I get married!

unbound
unbound Member (15323posts)
4/2/2007 7:33:00 PM
Sissy.. make sure you have someone who can tie up the corset properly. My makeup artist couldn't/didn't tie mine tight enough and so I'm a little dissapointed with how it looks in the photos.

There both really pretty, love the back of the first one. How fun to get to wear two completley different styles!

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/2/2007 7:44:00 PM
^ yeah, i'm not happy with how it looks in the pics my mom took... cinching it up makes such a big difference!!!!!!
There's a chance we may have another couple come with us and get married too, so she can help me, and i can help her!
banana

HOW FUN!
blush

But now I"m thinking, "FAWK, we'll already be married, do we really have to spend $13,000 on a reception?!?"

bang head

SexyChilena
SexyChilena Member (1773posts)
4/3/2007 1:47:00 PM
I would strongly suggest getting married legally in Canada first, then having a symbolic ceremony in Mexico.
2 reasons: their stupid rules, and it's cheaper!

For most places you have to be there 3-4 days before your wedding day...
some others:
"Blood tests: These must be done locally in Mexico"
4 witnesses
"get your certificate 'legalized' in Mexico to ensure it is legally accepted when you get back home"

Some resorts will give you a wedding for "free" if you book at least 5 rooms at a certain rate/level, etc. Lots of fine print. Most resorts will charge anywhere from $1,000 to $2,500 US for the wedding there. Renewal of Vow ceremonies run a lot cheaper (under $1,000)

I'd get yourself an amazing travel agent who is very experienced in group travel/weddings, and a resort wedding planner who actually knows what they're doing!!!!



Thanks smile

here's the thing... the legality part is not an issue... Ive found the resort I want to the wedding at... and rules go as follows... original or copied birth certificate, tourist id, which you recieve at the airport, 24 hours in Mexico prior to wedding, Blood test (which the resort provides) 24 hours bf wedding, 4 witnesses, not a problem... we plan on having over 25 guests... perhapts there is ALOT of fine print when it comes to the hotel arrangements for guests... thats what Im lost on... ??? its obviously better for a wedding planner/ corridinater to talk with the resort! they can negotiate better... rates for guests

I dont care about the cost of the actual wedding at the resort! the resort I want charges $2400 US for the wedding I want, which is fit for 20 -40 guests.... My budget was set at $5000

my thing was... i've been working through destinationweddings.ca and they provide you with someone to assist... i just would feel more comfortable talking with someone upfront about my plans... make sence?

Sissy? you find a location yet? for the destination ceremony?

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/5/2007 3:23:00 PM
SexyChilena, I'd phone around the travel agents and see what they can do for you. They will probably be the most educated on weddings in Mexico, and will be able to provide you with more information than a wedding planner who's never dealt with a Destination Wedding before. What tour group are you going with? What resort have you picked? You can always email the resort's wedding planner and see what they have to say as well!

We haven't done much booking a destination wedding yet. That's one thing I'm really laid back about, where ever it happens, it happens! banana

As for our Reception at home, here's a copy/paste of what I just wrote on another forum:



We've had one heck of a time finding a venue for our wedding.
We had the chance to use a barn for free from a friend of the family, unfortunately that didn't pan out - it wasn't really set up for weddings! We searched and searched and searched, and found a Ranch that does weddings - they weren't available for our date, and have since decided to stop doing weddings. Boo. FINALLY we found an awesome location (woohhoo) It's the UBC Boathouse...
All it is is a hall really, but it's BEAUTIFUL!


I went and saw it a few months back. The pricing was a little steep ($1,100 for 8 hours - and that doesn't include time to set up *which you have to pay for too *- and they won't let you set up the night before!!!) Needless to say I don't think they've done too many weddings!!

I asked then If I could put a deposit down to secure my date. The man told me They weren't booking in 2008 yet, and to get back to them 1 year to the date of our reception.
He also said that they only had 10 banquet tables, and 50 chairs, so we'd have to look into renting more. No prob!

Today I get a phone call.
It's a lady who has taken over from the man I talked to previously.

She phoned to tell me the rates are going up for 2008, and that she would need a deposit of $800 to hold my spot asap.
She wanted me to put the $800 on my credit card over the phone - NO THANKS! I'd rather go in there and have some things written on paper BEFORE putting down that large of a deposit!!!

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/5/2007 3:24:00 PM
The new rental fee: $2,200 for 8 hours! that's DOUBLE the price I was quoted before!!!!! And that includes NOTHING. No tables, no chairs (we'd have to rent them from the facility at an extra charge) So now that's $2,200 for the 8 hour rental, It will take at least 2 hours to decorate (there's not much decorating to do, but just setting everything up will take time!!) That's another $100 an hour. Add on renting tables and chairs: another $400-ish! So our once $1,100 (before tax) rental fee is now looking more like $3,000 after taxes!
If that's the case it's COMPLETELY out of our budget!

Argghh!

Sissy's on a mission to get the 2007 pricing!!
angry

unbound
unbound Member (15323posts)
4/5/2007 8:46:00 PM
What a load of bullsh.it. Go in there and turn on the waterworks.

Poor Sissy. sad

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/5/2007 10:11:00 PM
Yeah, just when i managed to shave the budget down to a REASONABLE one
bang head

The lady said she can guarentee me $1,500 for the 8 hour rental, since I'm in between the new contract at the old...
But still.. that's bullsh!t. I'll see if she can include the tables and chairs like i was told before as well.

if not, i'll cry and throw a tantrum wink
haha j/k


A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL
A_TaStE_OF_BraZIL Member (4494posts)
4/5/2007 10:15:00 PM
Don't you think you will be more stressed out not being able to set up the night before?

CowgirlSissy
CowgirlSissy Member (11200posts)
4/5/2007 11:17:00 PM
When we were planning on having the whole shindig here, having the night before to set up was a must.

Now that we'll actually be married already, and this will just be a big party celebrating that... I'm a LOT more laid back. We will be doing our photos before the ceremony/reception, so we're gonna see each other anyway. I'm not too worried about it.

With the venue like that all we're going to have to do is set up the tables & chairs, food tables, etc. There won't be much decor other than that

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