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12/30/2006 3:39:00 PM
This one's for the guys........Im just curious, why is it when you hurt a girl and she pushes you away.... you go about your way to try and make her jealous, or feel worse???
Afew guys have done this to me... and I just don't get it.... I mean, it sure as hell don't make me jealous...just proves to me how much of a jerk the guy really is.......cause you'd think if he cared he would call and leave msgs, send emails, or even flowers saying sorry and trying to get you to forgive him...
So, why do you all do this???
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12/30/2006 3:50:00 PM
It's the guys you're interested in. If it keeps happening to you then you know that you're the constant in the formula. What did you do to deserve it other than deal with them?
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yakko
Member (20665posts)
12/30/2006 3:53:00 PM
ACT WIT RESPECT...U GET RESPECT YO!
IF U DON'T GET RESPECT...KIK EM TO DA CURB... THAT B MY FINAL WORD
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12/30/2006 4:06:00 PM
I agree with steviewanders on you being part of the formula.
What exactly are the kinds of things these previous guys did to initially hurt you. And then how exactly did you push them away?
It kind of sounds like a cycle of hurt. they hurt you, you hurt them, they hurt you again. Maybe they didn't intend to hurt you in the first place and by you pushing them away it hurt them.
I had a girl do that to me once and the relationship went all downhill from there.
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12/30/2006 4:08:00 PM
Sounds like something very young men would do.
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12/30/2006 4:23:00 PM
Would this be a good time to nail her ?
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12/30/2006 4:44:00 PM
You get 'er saint.... an illiterate single mom.... at least you're aiming high.
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12/30/2006 5:08:00 PM
He likes you! Why do you keep playing games......
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12/30/2006 5:13:00 PM
I don't play games......they're just a waste of time.....but i have feelings and im not going to let a guy walk all over them
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12/30/2006 5:17:00 PM
it's not the guys your interested in.. thats every guy's out... I've dated very different kinds of guys and i've had a few do the same.. yeah I don't see what they get out of it besides trying to boost their own ego thinking you care..
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12/30/2006 5:27:00 PM
thats every guy's out
You haven't been with every guy.
it's definitely the guys she's interested in. What do they do to hurt her and why? Why do they go out of their way to make her feel jealous if she pushed them away? There's a pattern.
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12/30/2006 5:29:00 PM
I mean everytime a girl has a problem with a guy.. 'all the guys on here' reply "its the kind of guys you're interested in" theres more then that..
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12/30/2006 5:34:00 PM
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12/30/2006 5:46:00 PM
ok fine push me away.
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12/30/2006 5:59:00 PM
^^^ yeah.. she's the more part. Unless she gets specific then it's left up to the imagination. She's responsible for involving herself with guys who are unfaithful(?)..or maybe she has trust issues and is a jealous type.. </drawing straws>
It does bother her.. enough to start the thread about it.
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12/30/2006 6:40:00 PM
Well, he has you thinking about him.
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12/30/2006 7:18:00 PM
It's different with every guy........ one guy has cheated so of course I pushed him away......but he started getting with other girls only because he was trying to make me "jealous" thinking it would make me come back to him...
another simply said I'm ****ed up and some other chick was better then me....and it hurt, so i pushed him away because i needed my space.....but yet he'd still say stuff about this other girl trying to make my jealous......
why do guys do this??? those are just afew examples... i mean, i know ive dated some true assholes...but others were great guys i thought... what makes a guy think if he made me jealous i'd want him back??
Is it because you think I'd realize other women do want you?? i dont care.... if a guy hurts me, and tries to make me jealous after......im just going to be more pissed...
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12/30/2006 7:20:00 PM
^ Have you been receiving my messages ?
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12/30/2006 7:39:00 PM
messages where??
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12/30/2006 7:53:00 PM
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12/31/2006 12:43:00 AM
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