how do you break up with someone you're living with?
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 how do you break up with someone you're living with?
jono75
jono75 Member (424posts)
3/23/2007 9:31:00 AM
how do you break up with someone you're living with?

_stranger_
_stranger_ Dancer (38126posts)
3/23/2007 9:32:00 AM
text message.

jino
jino Member (192posts)
3/23/2007 9:32:00 AM
kick them out!

angelkakes
angelkakes Member (3637posts)
3/23/2007 9:40:00 AM
Sit them down & tell them.

It's hard, but the longer you wait, the more time you waste. Your's & your partner's.

sunday
sunday Member (6080posts)
3/23/2007 9:43:00 AM





nsx_swami
nsx_swami Member (426posts)
3/23/2007 9:48:00 AM
Maybe try talking to the other person. Don't complicate things more then you have to, just be honest about how you feel. They don't have to agree with it but as long as you are honest about your feelings you can walk away knowing you did the right thing.

BlondBeachBabe
BlondBeachBabe Member (137posts)
3/23/2007 9:58:00 AM
I just did this back in November.
It's rather tricky. But the guy was a complete Jerk/asshole/leach/.....many more names lol.
The best thing to do (which is what I did) is sit down with him and explain how u feel, and that you no longer want to be with him, then after you've told him that you no longer want to be with him, try to work out the living situation.

If he's a complete ass about it - pack up, get out and try to stay with family or friends until you can find a place of your own or a roomie.
If the place is yours - tell him he has till (what ever date you choose) to move out.

But first things first. Sit down and tell him how u feel and that you no longer want to be with him. What u do next will depend on how he reacts.

sunday
sunday Member (6080posts)
3/23/2007 10:05:00 AM
What u do next will depend on how he reacts.
what if he comes at you with a knife? yeah! react on that!
what's that? laying on the carpet bleeding to death is not working out too well?


NEXT!

danidabi
danidabi Member (2618posts)
3/23/2007 10:08:00 AM
My friend just went through this. She owned her condo so told him it was over (he was cheating on her), he had one week to be out. The day he was moving out she changed the locks, so once he was gone he couldn't come back.


sunday
sunday Member (6080posts)
3/23/2007 10:12:00 AM

steviewandered
steviewandered Member (3791posts)
3/23/2007 10:14:00 AM
Pack your bags. Let time, space, nutrition and peace of mind handle the rest.

Ishtar
Ishtar Member (5721posts)
3/23/2007 11:02:00 AM
move out, or pack their stuff and send them to their parents

alibaba77
alibaba77 Member (192posts)
3/23/2007 11:41:00 AM
haha, have some fun with it (and hurt her)... just invite a couple of c*nt-coke-heads over for a little photo-shoot, and leave the pics on the coffee table for your "soon-to-be-ex" to find.... they'll get the picture wink

alibaba77
alibaba77 Member (192posts)
3/23/2007 11:43:00 AM
JK... be real, be honest, and be quick

Skylar
Skylar Member (7431posts)
3/23/2007 3:41:00 PM
entertain their bestfriend in your bed

Presti
Presti Member (1976posts)
3/23/2007 4:14:00 PM
I just randomly left one night with a few things.

I wish I would have grabbed more of my stuff but it was all a bit sudden. I would recommend bringing anything that is of value to you. Make up a list and check mark each item off beacuse there is no way you will get certain things back no matter how hard you try.

Its not easy.

Good luck.

Red_dragn
Red_dragn Member (5887posts)
3/23/2007 4:24:00 PM
Dont be a coward and just leave. Do the right thing and talk to them about what they weren't able to do that you needed. It's not easy but at the end of the day you know you did the right thing and maybe the other person will grow from the situation.

Presti
Presti Member (1976posts)
3/23/2007 4:26:00 PM
^ I disagree.

Just leave. Why waste time on something that is already decided.

Many times when you "talk it out" you get conned into staying with someone that you no longer love. You are the only person that can make the choice and if you allow it you could be convinced to stay.

oldschoolpedal
oldschoolpedal Member (17391posts)
3/23/2007 4:33:00 PM
^^ Bingo.

^ If you're in a position where you're able to "get conned into staying with someone that you no longer love" then that "something" hasn't been decided and you're obviously still on the fence. If you've made up your mind, then I don't think there's anything the other person could say to make you stay, so why not be upfront and communicative?


TrAg
TrAg Member (11006posts)
3/23/2007 4:34:00 PM
Continue the relationship uninterested and being short with them until they finally break up with you ....It's clearly the only way to go.

Presti
Presti Member (1976posts)
3/23/2007 4:37:00 PM
obviously still on the fence

I disagree again.

Sometimes people with big hearts can feel bad for the other person. Then again my position was probably much different than the original posters. Without going into details I felt so outraged that I just left, no warnings, no talk, no hug. Adios.


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