it took me 31 years..
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Memberit took me 31 years..
Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 5:04:00 PM


There a few people I can say I can count on. I have been blown away by the generosity of many people that exsist. I think the key to knowing if someone is that awesome is when they suprise you out of nowhere and help you, when you never asked.

_RoNiN_
_RoNiN_ Member (5604posts)
5/13/2007 5:06:00 PM
^ absolutely..that is what it takes for me....and it happens....

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 5:07:00 PM


the only person who will understand you, though, is yourself.... and being a generous person is really setting yourslef up.. since kindess is viewed by many as weakness, therefore you become a target...but the truth is, it only makes you stronger or more aware.

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 5:08:00 PM


you have to be strong to be generous, there is no such thing as not.

Babes
Babes Member (1028posts)
5/13/2007 5:14:00 PM
quote:
Better late than never

Shedggs
Shedggs Member (6838posts)
5/13/2007 5:24:00 PM
you just realized this now?

listen to meggs.. she is on the ball with that one ' the only one who will understand you is yourself'. she is a great example, no one understands her except herself and her psychiatrist

_RoNiN_
_RoNiN_ Member (5604posts)
5/13/2007 5:26:00 PM
generosity is a feeling that makes my day positive,,,.Whether observing it, receiving it, or giving of myself....

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 5:29:00 PM
What truly sends people to a psychiatrist is when tthey cannot decipher between things they can and cannot control in their lives. I personally have never needed one. I do not view counceling as a bad thing, either. I only view taking or been given drugs to solve your problems, in a negative light.

But then again, I was raised by a psych nurse/College teacher.

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 5:30:00 PM

A tribute to mother's day - happy mother's day, mom.


Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 7:05:00 PM
oh, i still drink beer like a true Irish and smoke though.

no mother or person can make you perfect.


becuase, there is no such thing as perfectionism..only diversity.

_RoNiN_
_RoNiN_ Member (5604posts)
5/13/2007 7:09:00 PM
Mom for sure............!

_RoNiN_
_RoNiN_ Member (5604posts)
5/13/2007 7:44:00 PM
The older you get, the more you are able to truelly recognize genuine traits in people. Rather than the show put on by those who really haven't found themselves, and believe it to be a true representation of their intent.

A forgiving nature is admirable. PAtience and sharing are both needed for a lasting bond..

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 7:53:00 PM

you expereinced death, no offense to be so personal - but you will notice those who haven't won't understand anything you speak of.

and sometimes those who have expereinced it, won't'understand others who have healed from it and visa versa.

a.k.a. only you will understand yourself.

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 7:59:00 PM


I personally have healed from other's deaths, however would not know how I would deal with it if it happened today.

_RoNiN_
_RoNiN_ Member (5604posts)
5/13/2007 8:01:00 PM
do we understand each other?
blank stare

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 8:20:00 PM


I like to think I understand everything. wink

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 8:20:00 PM


who doesn't?

Mc_Meggs
Mc_Meggs Member (8004posts)
5/13/2007 8:21:00 PM


I trust you think I understand what you said., and beyond.

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