No takers? Fairy he stuff

Wear sunscreen.

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it

The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience.

I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.

Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.

But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future.

Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.

The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts.

Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy.

Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.

The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.

If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life.

The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.

Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.

Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.

Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.

Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.

Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body.

Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it.
It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance - even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.

Read the directions., even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.

"Brother and sister togeth

"Brother and sister together we'll make it through,
Someday a spirit will take you and guide you there
I know that you're hurting but I've been waiting there for you
And I'll be there just helping you out
Whenever I can"
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go,
but with a precious few you should hold on.

Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard.

Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths:

Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old.

And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you.

Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.

Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

I hope you do find true love Danceman. Great quest statement! It almost inspired me to try...but for now...I'll wait for your results.

anyway the end of the year is almost here.

still need to decide where to go.

come on, I 'll flip you for her!

Come on Sane you have to admit that is a cracking song.

mmmmmmm........ yeeeeeeaaahhhhh so anyway I was listening to the track number 3 again and by this time you would think I would have completely exhausted its effect but no.

what do you think about the Zech republic?

Why you ask?

I don’t know seems like the area might have that old Paris feel to it. Parts of Eastern Europe has its appeal since I have never been before; it would address my curiosity. Than again what if I go to Poland and work my way into Ziggy’s distant family and inherit the family longshoreman trade secrets.

CV I need more ideas!

well.

heres the latest.

I just came back from my first spot on this quest and yes met a really nice girl.

Puerto rico was interesting sorta......

yes, yes a lot of attractive people. I guess they are a combo of black, Spanish and Indian over there. it kinda reminded me of brazil but Spanish speaking.

I was actually hard pressed to find as much of a cultural contrast as i would liked to have hoped. they have embraced so much of the American franchise that it just felt like a low grade America with nicer people.

my point being? I guess i'm just disappointed because part of this quest is to satisfy my craving for a significant other who can offer a different culture as well.

its nice when you meet someone and you get to learn about their interests but its more exciting when they have a different culture to become part of.

anyway.

I hit it off pretty well with her and could see myself with her……but I feel like im on an episode of deal or no deal. Do I continue? For someone I think fits a more cookie cutter image of what I want or stay?