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MemberWatching Porn ...CHEATING???
teddd
teddd
Member
9/26/2007 8:36:00 PM
Ladies and Gents .... do you think watching porn is considered cheating if you peeps have bf / gf ??? Some experts say yes (cheating mentally) ... I say HELL NO ...what do you think???
Nac
Nac
Member
9/26/2007 9:33:00 PM
Hahaahah NO. If my bf told me it was between him or porn I would choose porn.
T_Girl
T_Girl
Member
9/26/2007 9:39:00 PM
Only if it takes away from THEIR sexual relationship wink
teddd
teddd
Member
9/26/2007 9:40:00 PM
hehehe.... there is nothin wrong with a little fantasy .... to spicy up life
teddd
teddd
Member
9/26/2007 9:42:00 PM
that wasnt my case with my ex, well im a horny bastard, porn or no porn i would make love ...
T_Girl
T_Girl
Member
9/26/2007 9:47:00 PM
thats also because you're still young... higher (usually) sex drive
teddd
teddd
Member
9/26/2007 9:50:00 PM
i guess so well I hope i never change ... Is being a sex addict good a good think...
patty_mcgaff
patty_mcgaff
Member
9/29/2007 12:23:00 PM
quote:
Only if it takes away from THEIR sexual relationship


Agreed. Although if it starts to take away from their sexual relationship, I'd suspect an addict... but that's a whole other topic.
Inzaghi_R2
Inzaghi_R2
Member
9/29/2007 4:25:00 PM
porn can be stimulating and pleasurable but it also ****s with the mind. watching porn if you have a wife or gf isn't cheating but porn does have a way to **** your mind up.

i don't think girls should be treated or looked at like objects. thats just me because i'm way too emotional with a girl than being cold and hard with one.
Jason
Jason
Member
9/29/2007 4:32:00 PM
Yeah. Jizz-ropes away! right? tongue

I think porn is fine and can even contribute to the relationship in some cases. What makes the difference I think is whether it's a clandestine activity or if both partners are open about it. If it's behind the other's back and, as T_Girl said, takes away from the couple's sex life, then yeah...probably not a positive factor in the relationship. But otherwise, it's voyeurism - watch together and have a good time. how you doing?
Inzaghi_R2
Inzaghi_R2
Member
9/29/2007 5:10:00 PM
watching porn is good with popcorn.
ledhed
ledhed
Member
10/15/2007 2:00:00 PM
my boyfriend wont stop watchign porn and it does bother me, he expects me to do **** in the sack that I dont want to do and I m sure hes getting these ideas from the porn. he says hes not watchign it but i always find it on the comptuer. so its a problem fo rus.
Ishtar
Ishtar
Member
10/15/2007 2:15:00 PM
^My ex-father in law was addicted to porn.
He was also an alcoholic.

I don't think porn is cheating. Why would you control your partner's viewing habits. What if your partner was fantisizing about another woman while making love to you? You wouldn't know what he is thinking......it's all a fantasy in a person's mind, but acting out that fantasy and cheating is different. If watching porn satisfies a person enough to enjoy their sexual life with their partner and partner only, what is the hurt in that?
oddio
oddio
Member
10/15/2007 2:34:00 PM

Porn is only cheating if you are "making" a porno movie without your significant other present.

xx_genuine_xx
xx_genuine_xx
Raver
10/15/2007 3:03:00 PM
PORN is safe sex... tell her its either this or another woman
wolfchick
wolfchick
Moderator
10/15/2007 3:22:00 PM
Porn is not "cheating"... if porn is a problem, it's probably a sign that there are other problems in the relationship...
TofuUfo
TofuUfo
Member
10/16/2007 9:35:00 AM
I only watch porn with my g/f because she is as attractive as most of them and i am bigger than most of them. If i had a little weenus and saw my girl drooling over it, i think i might not like that much. I dont know perhaps some of you have iron clad self opinions.

I think in terms of cheating its not unless it makes you want to act out the lustful slutty things that go on. Also i agree with Inzaghi, that it is not good for the mind, they call it XXX for a reason. I guess porn has become the new "leave it to beaver" (no pun intended) so everyone just excepts it.
Divine_Retribution
Divine_Retribution
Member
10/16/2007 10:14:00 AM
Has anyone seen the site myfreepaysite.com ?
TofuUfo
TofuUfo
Member
10/16/2007 10:14:00 AM
quote:
Hahaahah NO. If my bf told me it was between him or porn I would choose porn


Notawaa, i never would have pegged you for a porno fiend
wolfchick
wolfchick
Moderator
10/16/2007 10:15:00 AM
its not cheating unless it makes you want to act out the lustful slutty things that go on.

How can that be called cheating? Unless you're doing them with someone other than your partner.
TofuUfo
TofuUfo
Member
10/16/2007 10:22:00 AM
i meant if makes you want to act it out on other women
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