I like a woman that is independent, has her own personality and opinions and can defend them, she is financially and emotionaly secure and can live without me but chooses not too.

She needs to be smart,because I will get bored if the lady cant mentally challenge me or at least understand me at a intellectual level.

She will be sexual and thus compatable with my passion and drive - she can verbally and physically communicate in the language of passion.

She will be beautiful in that she will always strive to look her best regardless of her shortcomings

She will respect me as I respect her, She need not agree with me on all things, in fact I prefer she didnt , but she should have grace and tact and behave diplomatically to earn my respect

she wont try to change who I am, and understands that the differences are what makes us unique and allows for that space.

She will know when to speak up and when to let things slide. there will be times when I need her to do both with loyalty and honesty.

She is interested in friends and family and understands the importance of each

She will enjoy me for who I am and wants my company as well as my friendship. I will know by the way she looks at me and treats me. By her eyes and her smile and how she will fill with joy at the attentions I shower her with.

And as a true friend she will encourage and have faith in me that I can be better than I am. And supports me in my effects to do so.